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Almost, Almost and then Finally

They say timing is everything, and somehow our story started before we even officially met.

For years, we unknowingly crossed paths and missed each other by inches. Eventually the timing finally lined up at a mutual friend's birthday and when we did meet, it didn’t take long to realize that the connection between us was undeniable and the chemistry was unmatched.

What started with getting to know each other quickly turned into never-ending conversations, infinite laughs, and the comforting feeling that we’d found our person. Somewhere between the inside jokes, the everyday adventures, and learning how to perfectly balance each other out, it became obvious we were building something that neither one of us could’ve ever dreamt of being possible.

Though the distance between our hometowns was vast, our stories started less than 24 hours apart. When we discovered on our first date that our birthdays were separated by less than a day, it solidified what we already knew, that we were made for each other.

Looking back, it’s funny to think about all the times that we should have crossed paths but always just missed each other. It’s true that timing really is everything. But in the end, the timing worked out exactly the way it was meant to. Now we get to spend forever making up for lost time.

We can’t wait to celebrate the start of our next chapter surrounded by the people we love and care about the most.

Our Story

I met Scotty on a boozy summer evening at Barney's patio about three-and-half years ago when he was out with a group of friends that included Ashley — my sister, or as she's better known, "Joker." I didn't know it then, and looking back its little surprise, but that night I made a new friend I am lucky and proud to call one of my best. 

Scotty has an effect on all the people he meets with his welcoming, kind, down-to-earth character, and a great sense of humor. He made an impression on me during our first encounter, which is no different than I am sure he's shared with so many others. 

So, when I left Barney's early there was no hesitation when I asked Scotty to keep an eye on my sister. He did, and I couldn't be happier. Within two weeks a relationship had blossomed: mine and Scotty's — oh, and his and Ashley's also.

Since that initial meeting, we've shared countless great times. I look forward to many more in the years ahead.

I only named a few of Scotty's endearing qualities, but there's many more. To stand beside him on his wedding day as best man is truly an honour. I already call him brother; Sept. 26, 2026 just makes him officially family.

Brian Williams

In Ashley’s 30 years of life, the first 106 days were the saddest; they were the days before I was born, and before we became friends. But from that point on, Ashley has always been by my side, never more than a call or text away. Whether it’s for the most boring conversations or true SOS moments, she’s always there. She is the most giving, kind hearted, loving klutz I’ve ever met.

When she met Scotty, she smiled a little brighter, and I watched her already amazing self become even better. I can’t wait to stand beside a couple who truly could not have found a better match; best friends, perfectly paired, and living proof of the phrase “never a dull moment.” 

Michelle Slawson

Scotty and I met as a lot of guys do, by their significant others being friends and forcing us to tag along. I remember that first tag along where Jaden and Ashley had one too many drinks (as per usual), and Scotty and I spent the night rolling our eyes at them. From then on, I knew Scotty and I would get along. Fast forward a few years, a couple golf rounds, some great trips, a handful of beers and a lot of laughs, and Scotty is one of my most genuine, caring and closest friends. And just as important, I’ve gained an incredible friend in the bride to be as well. Ashley is always quick with a joke, a story, a shot, and has an incredible way of bringing people together. I can see that Ashley truly makes Scotty happy every time we are together. You two are perfect for one another and I am honoured to stand by you on your special day.

Nick Hollinger

I’ve been lucky enough to call Ashley my best friend for 23 years. We grew up living around the corner from each other, and from the very beginning we were inseparable.



Some of my favorite memories from our childhood together are - jumping on the trampoline, sleepovers, forts, walking to school, garage sales, and girls club. Her family became my family, and I lovingly call Cathy Mama #2.



As we grew up, so did our adventures - cheerleading, parties, slip-and-slides, and many nights laughing way too hard. In adulthood, that turned into girls’ nights, shows, mustangs , and plenty of beer - always filled with laughter. But as we’ve grown, our friendship has deepened. To Andrew she is Auntie Ashley and going dress shopping is a memory I’ll cherish forever.



 Ash is hilarious, loving, the life of the party, an incredible listener, and truly has a heart of gold. I absolutely adore Scotty, and the two of them together just make sense - they are perfect for each other. I’m so happy and excited to celebrate them and this next chapter together.

Alanna Salter

Although I haven’t known Scotty for as long as some others, it truly feels like we’ve been friends for a lifetime. From day one, I knew we’d be buddies for life. From casual drinks and easy conversations to bachelor parties and deep talks, every moment has meant a lot. I’m beyond excited to stand by your side on your big day and to be there for many more milestones ahead for you and Ashley. Love you both so much

Dan Slawson

I’ve known Ashley since we were teens, but our bond truly grew when I started dating Brian nine years ago. We may not be sisters-in-law by marriage, but we are absolutely sisters by choice. From family trips to Tobermory and Sauble to—literally—breaking limbs together, we’ve been through it all! Ashley lights up every room she enters, and I was so happy when she introduced me to Scotty. Seeing the love they share, I knew she had finally found her person. I’ll always be in her corner cheering her on through every stage of life.

Kendra Chapman

Scotty and I have been friends since Grade 3—just minutes before his beard came in. Back when our biggest priorities were having fresh American Eagle polos and winning hard-fought battles of mini sticks. We remained best buddies through high school and even lived together for our first two years of university, racking up an endless supply of laughs, memories, and questionable decisions.
Even though we’ve lived far apart since then, nothing has really changed. Every time we reunite, it feels like no time has passed… except for the joint pain and slightly worse hangovers. I couldn’t be happier that Scotty and Ashley found each other, they are truly a perfect match. I’m so excited to see what the future holds for them and honoured to be part of such a special day.

Devon Stokes

Our story is an odd one, because Ashley and I knew each other for years before we actually became friends. I was her dental hygienist and we always got along so well, after each appointment I would think “should I get her Instagram or number?” But I was too scared to ask. Finally one day, she asked  “can we be friends” and the rest is history. Now, anytime she’s introducing me, whether its a random sitting beside us at a bar, or one of her friends, you can count on her saying “this is my dental hygienist and I asked her to be my friend!”. Ashley is one of the most thoughtful, funny and caring people that I know and we share a true bond over our love for trash reality TV. My husband, Scotty, Ashley and I have now all become great friends and have had many memorable nights… from Scotty letting me chop his hair, to staying up till 4am playing spoons (RIP to your scratched table - oops). I love you both so much and I can’t wait to watch you two spend the rest of your lives together!

Jaden Hollinger

When I first met my wife Becky's little brother, Scotty, he was only twelve. Attempting to bond, Becky suggested we take him to the movies. That's how we ended up in a theater watching Good Luck Chuck, which is described by reviewers as "a pretty funny movie with A LOT of sex in it" and "too raunchy for all ages." The combination of an oblivious twelve-year-old (who was caught searching Limewire for Rachel McAdam's boobs a few weeks after this incident), a questionable R-rating, and the inescapable truth of what we were watching made for an intensely awkward movie night and a blessedly silent car ride home.

And here I am, almost 20 years later, looking forward to standing by him as a groomsman.

Paul Pezzimenti

Where do I even begin…Ashley and I are 3 weeks apart and as cousins we have created a “twin” like bond -and we all know how much we look alike. Over the last 30 years we’ve made so many memories, laughed way too much, and have always been there for each other through life’s challenges and milestones. Now this brings me to Scotty & Ashley’s relationship. The first time I was able to meet Scotty I had this overwhelming feeling that he’s been apart of the family for years. The way he looks at Ashley with love and the bond for one another has been so amazing to witness, this is all I have wanted for Ashley since we were little girls. I look forward to celebrating with them on their wedding day, and witness the next chapter of their life. 

Elise Smith

Scotty is my partner Lyndsay’s little brother and he and I cemented our friendship with a shared, unforgettable night at a Gaslight Anthem concert—the kind of raucous evening that ends with a blur of loud music and bad decisions. Unfortunately for Scotty, the "unforgettable" part peaked when another friend, having overindulged, ended the night by unceremoniously throwing up all over Scotty's parents' pristine front lawn. Despite the disastrous, messy conclusion to their outing, the incident somehow failed to derail our bond; instead, it became one of those legendary, cringe-worthy memories.



Years later, having moved past punk shows and regrettable lawn incidents, that chaotic connection has endured, leading me to stand proudly by Scotty's side now as a groomsman in his wedding.

Ben Rudkins

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